Sunday, 6 October 2013

Daily Affirmations - How To Use Them To Change Your Life

By Esme Chau


I am not talking here about the weak old affirmations of "I am getting better and better each and every day." I am talking about those power affirmations that are targeted, specific and zone in on exactly what it is you want to achieve or change.Affirmations are one way to convince your subconscious mind that what you want or desire is already in your possession. Once you can do this the floodgates open and what you desire or the change that you are trying to bring into effect comes into your life.
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Affirmations are powerful so you must remember to use your words carefully. Choose words that are in complete alignment with you and what you want, choose only positive phrases and affirm them in the here and now by using words such as "I am" and "I have".

If you're ready to start feeling more positive about yourself, it's simple. Select a handful of positive affirmations, look in the mirror, and repeat them to yourself. You can do this in the morning before you leave the house, and again, before you end your day. Examples might be:I am creative, intelligent, and attractive, and I enjoy a wonderful circle of friends.My talents are noticed and appreciated by my peers.I walk boldly and confidently into new situations and I make friends easily.I meet every challenge with grace and creativity.

Pay attention to how you feel. If you are feeling good you are moving into the position of allowing what you want to come into your life, if you are feeling disappointment or any other negative feeling you are thinking about the absence of what you want in your life. This will stop it from coming to you.

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The appearance of being in control is something the people around you will look for in a man. Tailoring your positive daily affirmations to suit this end will go a long way toward achieving this goal. You will want to tell yourself that you are in control of what goes on around you. It is important to remember that not everything will always be in your control however. In cases like that, you will want to remind yourself that things that are out of your control will still not bring you down. This is the first step in controlling your environment.

The man who uses positive daily affirmations is also a very confident man. This is easily accomplished by affirming the positive around you. Ensure that you tell yourself that you are a success, that people like you, and that you are a good person exactly the way you are. The important part of this is to show your subconscious mind that you don't have to change for anyone, and that you are fine the way you are. Your own self-confidence will show to those around you, making you seem even more in control. Positive daily affirmations that affirm your own self-worth show those around you how comfortable you are in your own skin.

A man in control is a successful man, also. With the use of positive daily affirmations, you can show the world that you are a success in your own right. Look around you and reinforce the successes that you have achieved in life, no matter how small, to help you create affirming statements that help you understand you are successful. You may have a great family, you may be rich, or you may own your own house; any of these things can be considered a success. By projecting your successes to the people around you, you are projecting a sense of self-worth and value. Build your positive daily affirmations using these examples to prove to yourself that you are a successful person. Setting up a routine of positive daily affirmations that play upon your strengths, you will exhibit to the world that you a man who is under control of everything around him. When people around you see the success and control you portray, they will respond to you with the respect you deserve. Remember that respect comes first from within, before you can receive it from others. Let your positive daily affirmations help you gain that respect.

Daily affirmations are available in many places (online, in books), but the more personal they are, the more effective they will be. This is why we encourage you to write your own. It's easier than you might think. First, grab a paper and a pen. Write down what you are unhappy with, or what you would like to change in your life. Then, write in present tense what would make you happy. This might look something like, "I hate being broke," and then, "I am financially secure and happy." If you have trouble with this, start simple and short. You can always edit your statement later on to be more specific. "I am happy," is a fine beginning.

Don't drag yourself down by focusing on those negative thoughts! Instead, you need to have a list of daily affirmations that are written to help increase prosperity and abundance. Write a list, and keep it with you at all times. And whenever those negative thoughts begin to creep into your mind, immediately recognize the negative thought, and then replace it with a positive affirmation.Positive affirmations that are applied on a daily basis will help you change your reality and you will begin to attract positive people and positive experiences. Many people discount the effects of positive affirmations because they think that they don't work... but if you give it a little bit of time and a lot of focus you really can attract any amount of prosperity and wealth that you desire.Take a few minutes each morning and evening to focus on your positive daily affirmations, and you will begin to see the changes occurring in your life!




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