Sunday, 8 July 2018

Time In Reshaping Your Life

By Janet Olson


There are so many ups and downs day to day that it is difficult finding that perfect balance between work, relationships and even family. Reshaping your life takes an effort to do those things that one knows one should be doing in order to achieve a better lifestyle. A lot of this revolves around money and getting those comforts in life sought after by so many.

Everyone wants to be happy or have more, or love more and so often this eludes the person because of various reasons usually being the emotional ones that one just does not want to change. Changing takes effort and will to do just that and a person feels this intrinsically and intuitively. It is that inner voice that cries out for change and heeding its call is what is required.

Then there are relationship problems or ones that are just not going the way one foresaw. Time and again many get locked into relationships that are not healthy for the fear of losing that person and moving on. If the relationship is stagnating or just an unhealthy one then ways must be found and explored or in the worst case scenario, cut ties and get on with it.

If this is the case, a person can feel that they are not loved and appreciated especially when other members do not thank them for the efforts and show some courtesy and acknowledgement for what they do. If this is the case, one does feel alienated and alone and tend to just go through the day doing what must be done in the way of doing the laundry, preparing meals and cleaning up littered rooms. If there is no other spark in these relationships with family members it can push one to divorce and move on.

There is just so much that can go wrong in a relationship and this is when possibly, help should be sought out and a couple needs to go for counselling. This is a positive step especially when there is little communication between the couple. For the one that feels as if it is going nowhere this is an essential part in achieving some sort of progress.

If one feels that things are just flowing from one day into the next and boredom sets in, it is time to make changes. Feeling apathetic is not a good sign that one is living it to the fullest and action is needed immediately. A person knows what those changes should be but taking them and implementing them is often neglected.

This only makes one more apathetic in bringing about those changes. It could mean starting a new career path especially if one is not just making it financially in the one that is already there. At best, many do not find happiness in what they do for a living and this can be the main cause of a state of depression one finds themselves in.

It is never too late to bring about change. Being mindful of the next is very important. If all else fails, it is best to seek out help.




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