Tuesday, 6 August 2013

Masturbation Facts For Women

By Jasper Badcoe


Females who are in need of sexual gratification often turn to masturbation to achieve their sexual and psychological objectives. Many married and single women often masturbate and explore their erogenous zones so as to have orgasm whenever they need it. A lot of women even masturbate and achieve multiple orgasm during one erotic masturbation session.
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In the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries Western Europe went through a time known as the Reformation. This was when parts of the Catholic church fragmented into many different parts as people realized that the Roman church was very corrupt and heretical. Out of these many sects a few became quite radical in their interpretation of human sexuality and called themselves Puritans. Their view was that sex was strictly between and married man and woman and only to be performed for the sake of birthing a child.

Well the sexy people of western Europe thought this was a stupid thing and invited the Puritans to move to the New World usually at the end of a sword or gun. So a lot of the original settling of what is now the United States was done by these Puritans. Many of them were in the founding government of the country and helped to create its laws and form our modern day values and beliefs. One of the most powerful beliefs is that sex is only for men and women who are married and for the purpose of birthing children.

With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.

Men need to master the women erogenous zones because that will make their partners adore them and be ready to have sex whenever they like. This is because sex with these women will be a give and take situation; the woman gives and receives pleasure, just like the man. Otherwise, the women will continue to masturbate even after having sex with their men.Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Imagine the male orgasm graph which looks a little like a vertical phallic symbol. Then imagine the female orgasm graph which looks like the outline of a woman's vulva.

That's another thing to remember. Mutual masturbation can be very sexy! Plus, a lot of guys love to watch their woman masturbate and you wouldn't believe how much it can turn a guy on to watch her go for it and pleasure herself! Plus, if he watches, he is bound to learn what makes you get turned on and that can only make your own love making sessions even better!

Build up with a partner takes much longer than a few seconds. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as he stimulates me. My mind has no conscious focus except the sensations of my partner touching me and thinking about his erection.For me, orgasm with a partner includes pelvic contractions but there is not the same sense of release. Using fantasy allows me to be the woman but also to identify with the man at the point of orgasm as he thrusts and ejaculates to orgasm. Perhaps this ability to superimpose the act of male ejaculation on my orgasm produces my sense of release.

When you reach your genitals, try out different kinds of touches and strokes. You can try tickling, stroking, kneading or pinching your vagina very lightly. Don't confine yourself to your fingers only. Use your hands and even your knuckles to stimulate the area.You will get the most amazing orgasm if you learn to hold it back for some time. Try slowing down the level of stimulation when you feel that you are about to have the orgasm. Do not stop it altogether; just stimulate another area for some time. This will not only increase the pleasure from the act, it will help you get multiple orgasms also.Remember to breathe regularly when you are getting the climax. The natural inclination is to hold your breath. However, breathing deeply and regularly will help you get a more intense orgasm.

Female masturbation is very important for sexual health, so indulge yourself whenever you feel the need!I've never read a book that practically breaks down the complexities of the female orgasm into an easy to read formula, like this one.I actually got my boyfriend to try out some of the techniques in this book and I ended up having wobbly legs the whole day! I didn't understand why they set a time limit for this book when everybody who read it, is raving about it.




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