Wednesday 28 August 2013

How To Get The Girls

By Monica Nice


Have you ever seen or known an average looking guy who is able to pick up a random girl in a bar and make out with her almost instantly?Most guys will automatically assume that he is a Natural, someone who was born with that power. But the truth is that no one is born with the ability to attract women, it's learned.If you follow some simple steps you can become that guy.The first thing you need to know is that the random girl is not as random as you think she is. Guys that are really good with women have acquired the talent to recognize a female who is prepared to make out. And, as a result, their odds of success go way up.
[How To Get A Girl]


It's obvious that some girls will like specific things in men that other women may find a serious turn off. As the expression goes "beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. Therefore, simply because one girl doesn't like you doesn't necessarily imply that you'll get the same reaction from the next one. The secret right here is never to take knock backs too severely. There is undoubtedly a young lady out there just for you. Accept it as true; nearly all women are simply just as interested in discovering the right guy as much as you are looking at finding the right lady. Also, one more thing, girls love sex as much as men do. At the end of the day they are only human beings and if you follow some fundamental guidelines you'll be pulling them in no time.

Finally, you can learn a lot about a woman by the way she is dressed. You want to avoid, at least for our purposes, a girl that is dressed in a super flashy way, one that is obviously looking for attention, she will probably not be a submissive woman. You need to find a girl that is in the middle between the extremes, one that is not over dressed or under dressed.You now know you should find a particular type of woman; you know three characteristics to look for, now you need to take action. No action, no results.

Women want a confident man. Confidence is like a muscle so you need to work it out. Even if you can't find a girl that display the characteristics we are looking for you should proceed anyway, just to see what happens. If you can't make-out in one minute or less it doesn't mean you are not going to make-out at all.Women are sexual creatures, maybe more than men, and I promise you they want this to happen as much as you do.It is sad how many times this instant make-out events never happen just because most guys let their fear take over and never go for it. I hang out with hot models everyday and I can tell you, most of the time no one's approaching them. Just by taking action you will be ahead of most guys.

Are you wondering how to get a girlfriend if you're fat? Well, I have good news for you. If you are overweight, then you should not worry about it because still you can get a girlfriend and she doesn't have to be fat as you are. Surely, being slim is a good thing but having awesome personality is even better. Women are more attracted to men's character than their muscular shape. So read on and discover the stunning secrets to get beautiful girlfriends even if you're fat.

Another way to find out if a woman is willing to make out with you is if she's actively looking around to make eye contact. A woman who is looking at someone specifically and she's not looking away is not going to be easy to seduce quickly. It is going to take a lot longer. You will have to play a completely different game when you walk up to this kind of woman. You won't be able to walk up to her and make out with her quickly.

Be positive and accept what you can't change. We all are not born with a silver spoon in mouth. In order to achieve success in dating life, you should accept what you don't have and then focus on the things you have. You will be surprised that you have lots of god gifted things that you can use to get beautiful girlfriends in your life. Find your passion and spend some time for you passion. If you do it, you will become a happier person. Also, women are attracted to the person who is passionate about something.

Once you walk up to a girl you have to make reads. If you walk up to her and she is smiling and looks interested than you have two choices. You can go in for the kiss and show her that you're confident and you are not afraid of rejection or you can start a small conversation and tell her you're interested.If you walk up to a girl and she won't look at you or she has a scowl on her face you can simply give her a compliment and walk away or give her a compliment and wait for her response, because sometimes they will give you a look as if they are not interested just to see if you're confident or not.Everyone would love of that 'girl next door' scenario where you can sneak next door when you please to a rather inviting hot female. You have some fun; you head home just after midnight.Wherever you live if there is an opportunity to seduce a neighbour, take advantage of it! For you young guys out there, you have the best opportunities when you're in your student accommodation. You share the same corridor with 100 other chicks!For you older guys, you don't walk directly past her door everyday, but im sure there is one on your street that you can't help but take a second glance at.

Girls are different and what one girl may like can be different from what another girl likes. Below are some useful tips that you can use to help win any girl you like.Make sure that you look good- Girls like guys who look good and are well- groomed. Girls notice a bad breath or smelly sweat and if you want to win a girl's affection, it's important to ensure that you keep the general cleanliness of your body. Ensure that you brush your teeth and your hair to look neat and presentable. Working out will be a bonus as girls like guys who have six packs.

If you are wondering how to get a girl to like you fast, then be her friend. For her to notice you, first ensure you are in her circle of friends as girls don't just like random strangers. Once you have won her over as a friend you can now start flirting with her. This will let her know of your intentions and she will most likely respond by flirting back if she likes you or not if she doesn't.Another tip on how to get a girl to like you is by acting confident- girls like guys who are confident. Being confident will show a girl that you believe in yourself and she will enjoy being around you.

Start by being the friendly neighbour who lives a cool life. The polite thing to do is to introduce yourself to new people on the street. Not enough people do it, hence the reason nobody really gets to know the people they live next to nowadays.Keep conversation brief, and close it after five-ten minutes of conversation. You don't want to be dragged onto the conversations of 'what colours she is going to paint each room' and 'how close the local shops are'. That's just standard conversation that the other neighbours would have had with her earlier in the day.

Tell her you love to get to know new neighbours and that she should pop round one evening for a while and get to know each other. Thing to remember is, when people are new to an area/place/country/company they always open up a lot more to meeting people. So she will be more than happy to come round, and will be glad that you offered!Many of times I have approached girls that have moved to Bristol because of their job/lifestyle and didn't know anybody just yet, so they didn't require much tight pick up to get numbers from because they are in fact more eager than you to meet new people!Plan for her to come round one evening, preferably on the weekend so you haven't got work the next day. Stick the fire on (or if you don't have one, make it cosy) and grab a bottle of red wine.

Keep off the dull conversation of being homebuyers and talk fun, about yours and her life, background, hobbies etc. Slowly but surely move onto dating/relationship stuff so that she feels comfortable sharing personal information with you. But draw the line with this; don't start advising her on her love life because you then become the gay best friend.Make sure you drop plenty of tiny indicators that you see her in a different way to 'just friends' by saying things like 'wow you're clever and cute at the same time!'Remember to stick to the push-pull theory; always follow up statements of interest with a challenging question, teaser or disqualifier.

Hanging out with a girl is of course the best way to get to know her and then may be even get a little closer. If she's special then she'll be well worth taking your time on. Don't forget women are simply as keen on guys as we are on them. Of course all this means nothing if you haven't summoned up the courage to ask her out yet. If you feel that it's too soon then try getting to know her better inside the security of a group of friends or perhaps a social club. While you spend time with her you should try to get the opportunity to make her feel special which is great for starting any relationship. Sometime slowly does it is the best way to go.

Romance could simply mean a peaceful evening walk with each other, flowers or perhaps a picnic. It certainly doesn't need to cost the earth and it shows that you operate on a somewhat deeper level than all of those other boring men out there and that you truly care and wish to make her feel special. We all know it's a bit wet but nevertheless it's a well known fact that almost all girls just love a little romance. Being a bit of romantic can really make all the difference and too be honest it's a real pleasure to watch a girl's reaction. This will make a real big difference when attempting to earn a girls heart so don't take the romantic side of things too lightly.So there you have it fourteen questions in different areas for you to consider and apply to your own dating technique. Some of these areas have a lot of different facets that you should with a little bit of searching be able to find much more information on how to get a girl to like you.Please do try to remember that dating is not an exact science and using these methods may not guarantee results. All girls as mentioned in the article are only human. As long as you are honest, respectful and just try some of the ideas here you are bound to have lots of fun.




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