Tuesday 27 May 2014

The Ideas Behind On Becoming Babywise

By Marci Glover


New parents often face tremendous challenges. Nothing in the world can prepare them for the shock of caring for a new baby. The responsibility is overwhelming and many people find themselves not getting enough sleep. After only a few weeks they feel that their lives have been totally taken over by the babies needs and they often become depressed or resentful. This is not a healthy state of affairs for anyone and the entire family will suffer.

Over the years there have been a number of books specifically written for new parents. One of the most famous was Dr Spock. He advised parents not to give in to the demands of a crying baby. Over the past few decades attachment parenting has become popular with babies co sleeping with parents and being fed on demand. On Becoming Babywise is a book that presents a more flexible approach that will appeal to many parents and help to get their infants onto a schedule.

The book has become a best seller because it really hits a chord with parents. It emphasises the need for structure and routine in a babies life. It has a clearly set out plan that follows well set out guidelines. At the same time readers feel that the flexibility of the program is a real bonus. It shows parents how to establish simple but effective sleeping and feeding programs very early on.

The premise of Babywise is in direct contradiction to the trend of attached parenting. Many parents find this approach too demanding as it requires them to put their child at the center of their lives. Feeding takes place on the demands of the child and sleeping is usually with parents and child in the same bed. For some people this situation works well, but for others it is simply too much.

A lot of scientific and medical research have gone into the book. It hypothesises that some crying is not harmful to a baby and can in fact have many benefits. For example, a child who is allowed to cry themselves to sleep will learn the value skills of getting to sleep without help from the parent. It is all too easy for an infant to become dependant on the bottle, rocking or even a car ride to fall asleep.

Many parents have tried the Babywise method and taken the time to post their comments and reviews. On the whole most people found the advice very helpful. They were often struggling with establishing a routine for both sleep and feedings. The book shows them that it is never too early to start working on both these issues. Many people had success within a matter of days and this encouraged them to stay with the program. The book sets out a clear plan for the first year of life, with stages of expectation for the young child.

However, as the book is very inexpensive it is worth reading. It can be ordered from the big internet sites for around ten dollars. Used copies are available for much less. Shipping only takes a day or two. Many exhausted parents have been happy to read the book and follow the guidelines.

The Babywise method is very valuable for those who do not have their own parents nearby to help them. In today's busy world families are often living hundreds or even thousands of miles apart. The traditional parenting networks have broken down and this book helps to fill a serious void.




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