Tuesday 29 January 2019

Why Am I So Unhappy With Myself Most Of The Time

By Charles Ross


Often, when people are not happy with themselves, it usually begins with a something temporary and it can build up gradually, until they begin to ask more questions about themselves in a more negative way. A common question is, why am I so unhappy with myself. This is a question that is difficult to answer, especially when it comes to happiness.

There are many reasons for this, from being in low in confidence and being self conscience because of folks who are overweight or worried about the way that they look. In this day and age, there is so much media attention. There is a lot of judgement in terms of how people see one another.

You may find that you are not happy because you have become depressed or anxious. There are people who have been walking around, feeling out of the ordinary with a change in behaviour for a really long time. Sometimes, you feel stuck in life and not having the courage to take the challenge to take the next step.

People become more and more self conscious about themselves, the longer that they dwell on these issues, and simply avoid them. However, they will eat away and continue to affect you in one way or another. People go through life in this state. They may end up surviving by having a comfort in their lives which can be their escape. It can be alcohol or food, for example.

This is why it is important to talk about what you is on your mind. Often, people have not been able to express themselves openly before. It will have affected them since they would have bottled up these feelings. This is obviously unhealthy because it can lead to all sorts of other problems.

However, it is important that loved ones encourage the individual to look for professional and specialized counseling or therapy. It is not necessary for someone like this to be walking around feeling anxious, depressed and afraid from one day to the next. Soldiers are strong, but when it comes to your emotions, blocking them out is actually not the best way in showing your strength.

When you want to show your strength in terms of improving, you need to become vulnerable. It takes a great deal of courage to get to this point where you are fully focused on your emotions and being able to express them verbally and non-verbally as well. However, one has to trust the therapist, knowing that they have the experience to guide the individual using the most suitable methods.

You need to know how to cope when you are struggling with various circumstances that can bring you down. Often, one will work on techniques which they can quickly turn to. For example, there are many apps on the phone and people may listen to something there. This could be meditation or mindfulness. Some people have anxiety or panic attacks. Although, you may find that these attacks are reduced after you deal with underlying feelings, you may get the odd panic attack. When this happens, you need to be prepared for this.




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