Thursday 9 February 2017

How To Create The Close-knit Family

By Patricia West


Everyone family wants to be able to connect with one another, so that they are in a healthy environment. It is important that you can relate well to your kids. You need to earn their respect. You need to have a home where you enjoy one another's company. This is the close-knit family which one has lost over the decades.

Parents who incorporate their children into their lives will find that they will develop a deeper relationship with them. However, it means that they have to work hard on these areas. The family is challenged with a lot of interference from the outside world which makes it difficult to have a deeper connection with the family.

It can include video games, the internet and other forms of technology. Kids are curious from a young age, and manufactures draw children to the digital screen, which can be addictive. Parents may find it challenging to set certain rules and regulations. However, the balance between love and discipline results in self respect. Children will learn to have a greater set of morals.

There are statistics to say that families who don't spend time with one another will not be able to deal with many issues that crop up. Something as simple as eating a meal together has become neglected in this day and age. Children are not even read a bed time stories. Parents are preparing for work, and they have to make sure that their lives are on track.

When kids come from a family like this, they feel neglected and abandoned. They may turn to drugs and alcohol. It doesn't take a lot of effort to encourage your child when he or she has done a good job at washing the dishes. It can do wonders when you praise your child after he or she brings home an art project.

Parents will complain that they don't have time for their children because of their basic lifestyle. However, one may also feel differently after the child has left home and wished you had done something else. Organization is key here. Parents may both have busy careers. However, it is still possible to spend time with the kids over the weekend as a family.

This is where you have to start from day one. The problem will begin with communication. Nine out of ten families collapse because of a breakdown in communication. Different styles of communication are involved. Some people are more extroverted. Others will bottle up their emotions. There are more people involved in a family unit, and one needs to watch out for various signs of chaos.

The problem will start when families are not coping, and won't admit it. They may be bottling something up inside, or they will keep on saying that it is only temporary.




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