Don't rush into getting back together after the breakup out of habit or what your used to having in your life. Really think about what the relationship was like and what the problems with it were. After taking some time to really seriously think things through after a breakup you will be able to choose if you want to work to get it back.
Some major reasons people breakup includes:
any form of abuse be it emotional, physical, or mental
finances, money troubles
lack of communication
mistrust
Don't convince yourself to work on this as you go after getting back together. Get started on your own. If after some time it's certain that both you and your ex have made progress then it can work out to continue together. Watch out for signs the abuse has changed forms and don't dismiss signs when you see it. Stay on top of things and this can work out.
If there are financial issues it is still possible to make it work between you two. If you two love each other, then it is conceivable that you can work through your financial difficulties. If you or your partner need to spend a few extra hours each day working, don't necessarily let that be an excuse for you to break up.
Once you have worked out a plan of action together trust in each other and support each other when you stumble. No one is encouraged or motivated by criticism.
Once you have determined that the relationship is worth repairing and made sure that you or your ex has taken steps to improve and mend the problems that caused the break up you can move forward into a stronger partnership. Think over what needs to be done and decide if the two of you are up to it. No one person alone can make or fix a relationship. All the best and good luck with your efforts at getting back together.
Some major reasons people breakup includes:
any form of abuse be it emotional, physical, or mental
finances, money troubles
lack of communication
mistrust
Don't convince yourself to work on this as you go after getting back together. Get started on your own. If after some time it's certain that both you and your ex have made progress then it can work out to continue together. Watch out for signs the abuse has changed forms and don't dismiss signs when you see it. Stay on top of things and this can work out.
If there are financial issues it is still possible to make it work between you two. If you two love each other, then it is conceivable that you can work through your financial difficulties. If you or your partner need to spend a few extra hours each day working, don't necessarily let that be an excuse for you to break up.
Once you have worked out a plan of action together trust in each other and support each other when you stumble. No one is encouraged or motivated by criticism.
Once you have determined that the relationship is worth repairing and made sure that you or your ex has taken steps to improve and mend the problems that caused the break up you can move forward into a stronger partnership. Think over what needs to be done and decide if the two of you are up to it. No one person alone can make or fix a relationship. All the best and good luck with your efforts at getting back together.
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