Saturday, 31 March 2018

Why Raw Emotions Come To The Surface

By John Green


Some people have less trouble controlling their emotions. It may be difficult to control raw emotions, such as anger, jealousy, anxiety or less love and more bitterness. Unfortunately, these types of emotions are part of one's life and they can come up any point in life. It can make you feel overwhelmed, and you need to be able to deal with this.

You need to ask yourself why you are battling with these emotions. It is important to deal with this early on because nine time out of ten, it will become worse. It is important to realize that self love, self respect and compassion for yourself come first before anything. You can't love anyone before you love yourself. People don't realize this.

It can be refreshing to talk to a psychologist or a counsellor. You need to feel that you are in a safe space and the there is a sense of trust that you feel towards the person you are talking to. This will lead to a unique and solid relationship. This connection is said to be the most important thing, which even comes before the experience and qualifications of the therapist.

It is particularly for a child or teen to have to deal with this on their own. They will have stressful feelings that they are suffering from in the home environment as well as at school. A child may become moody, withdrawn, angry or avoidant. The worst thing that a parent can do is to simply think this is a stage that they are going through. Often, it is a lot more than this.

There are many different techniques that therapists use. Sometimes this is combined with two different types of therapies or programs, depending on the issue or the disorder. For example, a patient may decide to taken on one on one therapy as well as group therapy at the same time. For someone with social anxiety, the group therapy will help them in a more practical way.

A person with borderline personality disorder will also find that emotions like these will take over their life and cause them many problems in their work performance and in their personal relationships. Most of the time, this will relate in the way in which they relate and react to people.

The emotions will come to the surface for a number of different reasons. This is what you have to discover more about. It can be stress or a past issue that you have suffered from in your childhood. It can also be a psychological issue. Some people just battle in the way in which they express themselves. Communication is the number one reason why people decide to opt out of a relationship.

It is easy to give up on a marriage. However, it is just as easy to talk to someone about this, and it is definitely worth it. Many people have a communication breakdown. Life becomes so busy that one struggles to spend time with their partner. They begin to drift apart. They may have arguments or they may avoid one another. A breakdown in communication is very common. The couple will learn more about practical techniques which will help them express themselves.




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