Tuesday 26 September 2017

The Traits Of Those Who Have Empowered Lifestyles

By Mary Johnson


People usually gravitate to the individuals who are so enthusiastic about their lives and who seem so cool and collective even though everything around them is already collapsing. These people are not like that simply because they are living the good life or because nothing fazes them. These people are like that because they live empowered lifestyles wherein they know what is in their reach and what is not.

Now, the first thing to know about people like these is that they are self motivated meaning that they do not need any outside factor to motivate them to do anything. Basically, once one has already developed the mindset that he can do anything he wants as long as he wants to put his head to it, then this will be the first step of empowerment. With this mindset, one will no longer look outward for motivation but rather inward.

Of course, the mindset that they develop would also come along with some action. These kinds of people are also known for always wanting to learn new skills that they know will contribute to their own personal growth. Their hunger for knowledge knows no bounds and they intend to excel in everything that they do.

Another very unique trait about these people is that they do not really care about what other people think of them or how other people feel about them. If there is someone who does not like them, they will most likely ignore it and concentrate on doing their other more important tasks. That trait in itself, is already a very empowering one because it releases one from the grip other people have on them which is known as shame.

Of course, they still do take into consideration what people tell them. The difference would be that they are selective as to what information they process because they know that not all information is useful in their lives. With this, they know how to screen out which information will be beneficial to them and which ones will not be.

These people are also seen to be very enthusiastic about life. These people are enthusiastic about what they do and what they are about. They are not overly optimistic yet they are not pessimistic. They are realistic in a sense wherein they know that their own actions can be controlled by their own means whereas other people cannot.

Last of all, these type of people seem to be as cool as a cucumber pretty much all the time. This is because they know how to control the situation by focusing more on a solution than on a problem. They do not see the whole point of stressing over anything because they know that anything can be solved if something is actually done.

Basically, empowering oneself is not about reading a book or being riled up by charismatic speakers. It is about accepting life the way it is and taking control of it. The only way to empower is to take the power from any type of situation and use it to an advantage for a gain.




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